Intimate Violence Across the Lifespan
Interpersonal, Familial, and Cross-Generational Perspectives
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Beschreibung
Studies of family functioning as their members age, and of elder abuse at the hands of adult children or caregivers, are recent trends in gerontology. Yet the intersection of these two ideas—the impact of prolonged domestic abuse on elders and their families—has received scant notice. Similarly, questions are posed as to whether abusers "age out" of violence, but answers have been inconclusive.
Intimate Violence across the Lifespan addresses these research gaps with a groundbreaking long-term study of why domestic abuse persists, why it replicates, how abusive relationships may be altered by the processes of aging, and how violence may be stopped. The authors' phenomenological approach to their subject makes extensive use of interviews with family members to present a detailed portrait of family violence and the changing dimensions of control and secrecy as abuser and victim age. Close attention is especially paid to the frequently marginalized experiences of adult children, and how these scenarios play out as they become partners and parents. The section on intervention depicts the multiple challenges of working with husbands, wives, and children, with guidelines for encouraging change, closure, and support.
Included in the coverage:
- Hiding as a way of life.
- Cumulative losses and loss of meaning.
- Giving meaning to life in violence.
- The family's summary of its journey in violence.
- The tension betweencontinuity and change.
- Intervention: making resilience and survival possible.
Intimate Violence across the Lifespan is an essential resource for researchers, graduate students, and clinicians/professionals in varied fields, including gerontology, family, psychotherapy/counseling, social work, personality and social psychology, and public health.
Evidence pertaining to continual violence throughout the life cycle coupled with the experience of growing old in a life permeated by intimate violence is scarce. And the focus is usually on the victims ─ usually, the older, battered women ─ and seldom on their aging partners or adult children who were part and parcel of the violent dynamics in the family system. With the increase in longevity and the older population’s subsequent growth in size, the number of elderly couples living and aging in long-lasting conflictive relationships is on the rise.
The relatively intense preoccupation with elder abuse in the gerontological literature in recent years has not specifically addressed long-term intimate violence among the old adults and its lasting consequences. Similarly, the literature on intimate intergenerational relationships in old age has usually focused on normative exchanges between partners and their extended family, including their adult children. Therefore, conflictive relationships, and particularly violent ones, have also fallen outside the scope of this body of research. This volume describes and analyzes the various perspectives of family members concerning life, and particularly old age, in the shadow of long-term intimate violence. It explores how people make sense out of living and aging in violence, how interpersonal, familial and cross-generational relationships are perceived and reconstructed and how “we-ness” is achieved, if at all, in such families.
Provides a lifespan perspective detailing how violence developed, changed, and became a way of life instead of sequentially addressing child abuse, woman battering, and elder abuse Describes ways people age in violence Uses the family as the unit of analysis The book assembles and presents multiple views from family members, ranging from the elderly partners to their now adult children Explores the question of whether the persons interviewed are primarily elderly people who experience violence, or violent and victimized people who grew old Includes supplementary material: sn.pub/extras
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Tova Band-Winterstein
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Caregiver-elderly relationships Conflictual relationships Elder abuse and neglect Intergenerational relationships Intimate partner violence Parent-adult child relationships Parent-child relationships Violence across the lifespan
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“This book explores domestic abuse across the lifespan and how the aging process impacts these relationships. It also looks at interventions that can be useful to elderly individuals. … This book explains the important issues for family members and discusses intervention strategies focusing on finding meaning in these relationships. This is an important book for clinicians who treat families and intimate partner relationships.” (Gary B. Kaniuk, Doody's Book Reviews, May, 2015)
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